One Bedroom Flat – A Bitter Reality


ONE BEDROOM FLAT…
WRITTEN BY AN INDIAN SOFTWARE ENGINEER..

… As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the
land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true. Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.

My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.

I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald’s and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down. Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one  candidate.

In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After
the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after
them, we returned to USA. My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing.

After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children. Every year I decide to go to India… But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn’t get any holidays and thus could not go to India … The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.

After couple more years passed away, much to my children’s dislike and my wife’s joy we returned to India to settle down.
I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA… My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India… My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years. Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA… I decided that had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to India… I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.

Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode. Sometimes I wondered was it worth all this? My father, even after staying in India, Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more. I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM. Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing. This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me. Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who  will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.

But the question still remains ‘was all this worth it?’ I am still searching for an answer……………..!!!

START THINKING

IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???

LIFE IS BEYOND THIS …..DON’T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE & PARENTS ……..
START LIVING IT …….
LIVE IT AS YOU WANT IT TO BE ……. BCZ LIFE IS PRECIOUS!!!

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3 thoughts on “One Bedroom Flat – A Bitter Reality

  1. Dear Pankaj, I have immensely liked your eyeopening post ONE BEDROOM FLAT. I sympathize with the author but he must understand that what he experienced is MAYA – the desire for possessions. Our whole life is spent in pursuing MAYA which eludes us, leaving us disillusioned and unhappy. It is not easy to avoid running after money and possession. We must develop the right philosophical attitude. It is not easy to ignore money. See the song:-


    and you will understand the powerful attraction for money. DK

    • Thank you for your concern. Yes you are absolutely right about MAYA, Running after money and possessions. And it is also true that it would not end ever. But still to lead a good life, one has to maintain a good balance between life and career, his wishes and necessity, people expectations and his ability to fulfill it. No one is perfect but everyone should try to be perfect in his own level.

      “A promotion on account of break up/divorce is of no use. and I would say nothing could be worst than this.”

  2. Moreover I am pretty much concerned about the thoughts of our generation which has no emotional and social limit.

    At one place I read :

    “Money & success can’t give u happiness in life. But it’s always better to cry in a Mercedes than on a bicycle.”

    Whomsoever has given this thought is right in his own context but there are a lot of things in our real world which can not be quantified and compared with money. Parents and family are some of them. Money can you a luxurious life but it would not bring back the love and expectation which our parents have from us.

    I would like to share one video here which would let everybody think about the gravity of the situation .

    https://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=10150344610602295

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